This article by Yu Shan helps answer one of the biggest questions
about the law of attraction...
Is The Law Of Attraction Real?
Many people who are new to The Secret want to know if it's
"real." That is, whether there is some simple physical mechanism
that makes good things happen simply as a result of positive
thinking. The answer could thoughtfully be yes, no and maybe,
all at the same time.
For starters, there's nothing simple about consciously changing
the way you think. Even those who've been at it for quite some
time are still novices. Like the path towards Enlightenment, it
will probably take a lifetime to get out of the novice stage. So
no, you can't just make a wish and hope that it comes true.
There's a bit more to it, but not much more if you really make a
change in your way of thinking with some careful practice.
Negative thoughts come at you from all direction. Especially
when you live in a state of fear, it's easy to succumb to
disparaging thinking. Does this actually make different quantum
decisions that ultimately affect the most minor of action that
can set a course of events in motion that has a profoundly
positive effect on you if you're bothering to look? Maybe.
Given the mathematics of quantum phenomena, it may be very
improbable to happen, but the idea is that you (and better yet,
a bunch of people) are able to change the probability.
And maybe they can. There have been studies done at Princeton
University that have actually tracked deviations from strictly
random probability. The effect is measurable by current
technology when very intense things happen to millions of people
or when a large group of several thousand concentrate on a
specific goal. It's possible that for change to happen in one's
life, only a very random and small deviation is required – one
that cannot currently be measured. It's certainly possible,
though not proven.
It's just possible that the effect, when used in conjunction
with some well-known mental training techniques that encourage
existing human predilections toward an all-encompassing focus
upon "what could be," can help bring about some improbable or at
least unusual good fortune. It could happen, though some think
it an act of vanity to believe their thoughts have power.
Some people adopt an air of superiority of hubris, thinking
that is the same thing as a serene concentration on gratitude,
positive goal setting and openness to opportunity. It is not.
Arrogance is just a complicated sort of fear. Imagine if you
really just spent your time looking towards all the good things
you could do and imagined yourself in that position.
By very carefully imagining yourself actually receiving what
you crave, and really feeling and seeing every detail there, you
probably can't help but formulate some creative ideas about how
to how to do it. You'll also put yourself in situations where
you may meet people who'd be interested in helping you. By
immediately acknowledging people's assistance, you create good
will that encourage social networking that works to your
advantage.
The Law of Attraction works when you focus outward rather than
inward, and perhaps that is, in essence, how it works.
Yu Shan © 2007
About The Author: Yu Shan,is an expert in the field of living
simply to have more abundance and prosperity. You can find more
of her information on attracting wealth, living the life of your
dreams love and more on her website,
http://www.freeselfhelpebook.com .
Saturday, September 8, 2007
Tuesday, June 19, 2007
Amazing Laws To Boost Your Business And Your Life
There are powerful Laws that most successful entrepreneurs
and small business owners never talk about. They use them
every day and have created fortunes and fabulous lifestyles
as a result. I'm referring to the Laws of the Universe.
You are governed by these Laws whether you know it or not,
and whether you believe it or not. You have a choice to
understand these Laws and use them to create a life of
unimaginable peace, wealth, health, relationships, and
spiritual fulfillment. Or, you can continue to make excuses
or blame others for why your prayers are not answered or
why other businesses succeed and yours does not.
If you know there is much more that you are capable of
doing, being, or having, and you have not been able to get
the results you want no matter how hard you've tried, then
understanding the Laws of the Universe and how they affect
you might be the answer.
The Laws of the Universe Revealed
The Laws of the Universe include the Law of Vibration, Law
of Attraction, Law of Polarity, Law of Cause and Effect,
Law of Rhythm, Law of Gender, Law of Relativity, and the
Law of Perpetual Transmutation. An essential ingredient to
using these Laws is to understand your mind and how it
works, including the powers of your subconscious and
conscious minds.
Thankfully, films like The Secret, and What the Bleep Do We
Know, has made it possible for people worldwide to learn
these Laws and put them to work. People who consistently
operate within the Laws are now making quantum leaps in
every area of their lives.
I was fortunate to have learned these Laws very early in
life. My mother was a master at using the creative process.
At the age of thirteen I was learning to meditate and
visualize. The first thing I attracted was a new bike. I
later learned to attract cars, homes, money, jobs,
relationships, and exotic vacations.
I was taught that by learning to control my thoughts and to
keep my mind in sync with the Universal Laws, I can easily
tap into the Universe for anything I wanted.
Advances in Quantum Physics
Quantum Physics has recently revealed what we in the human
potential field have known all along: that our mind is the
cause of all that happens in our lives, whether it is good,
bad, or indifferent. It is not "God's will"', and we are
not victims of circumstance. The scientists have proven
that when we use our mind in the right way, we tap into the
hidden powers and forces that have been dormant. These
powers allow us to achieve anything we want in life, as
long as we operate within the Law.
When you change your thinking, you will change your life.
It's that simple. You will stop limiting your abilities,
you will learn new beliefs that serve you, and you will
achieve successes that you never thought possible. You will
find your life purpose, you will learn why you have been
getting the results you've gotten, and you will learn to
use visualization and meditation in a way that creates
calm, peace, and clarity. You will begin to live your life
the way God and you intended. You can even become a
multi-millionaire if you want to.
Make time to read and learn about the Laws of the Universe.
One of the Laws says "like attracts like."' Once you make
the decision to learn about the Laws, people and
opportunities will appear that will help deepen your
understanding and inspire you to continue the journey.
The process has already begun. It is no accident that you
are reading this message. The Universe works in exact
precision. My writing this article and getting it into your
hands at the exact time your mind is open to receive it is
no coincidence. It is further example of how the Law works.
Once you align your mind with these Laws, you can change
your life at depth. Your mind does create your reality. You
can choose to ignore it and continue to be a victim of
circumstance, or you can accept it and allow it to work for
you, your family, and your business. It's your choice.
Aim High!
About the Author:
LaVera Gaston is a Success Coach and Law of Attraction
expert providing coaching and training to entrepreneurs,
professionals, and small business owners. She is a former
senior executive and helps her clients develop the right
mindset, goals, and strategies to grow their businesses.
She is founder of MindSync Solutions and can be reached at
916-419-3998. You can visit her website at
http://www.laveragaston.com
Click here to learn more about The Science of Getting Rich
and small business owners never talk about. They use them
every day and have created fortunes and fabulous lifestyles
as a result. I'm referring to the Laws of the Universe.
You are governed by these Laws whether you know it or not,
and whether you believe it or not. You have a choice to
understand these Laws and use them to create a life of
unimaginable peace, wealth, health, relationships, and
spiritual fulfillment. Or, you can continue to make excuses
or blame others for why your prayers are not answered or
why other businesses succeed and yours does not.
If you know there is much more that you are capable of
doing, being, or having, and you have not been able to get
the results you want no matter how hard you've tried, then
understanding the Laws of the Universe and how they affect
you might be the answer.
The Laws of the Universe Revealed
The Laws of the Universe include the Law of Vibration, Law
of Attraction, Law of Polarity, Law of Cause and Effect,
Law of Rhythm, Law of Gender, Law of Relativity, and the
Law of Perpetual Transmutation. An essential ingredient to
using these Laws is to understand your mind and how it
works, including the powers of your subconscious and
conscious minds.
Thankfully, films like The Secret, and What the Bleep Do We
Know, has made it possible for people worldwide to learn
these Laws and put them to work. People who consistently
operate within the Laws are now making quantum leaps in
every area of their lives.
I was fortunate to have learned these Laws very early in
life. My mother was a master at using the creative process.
At the age of thirteen I was learning to meditate and
visualize. The first thing I attracted was a new bike. I
later learned to attract cars, homes, money, jobs,
relationships, and exotic vacations.
I was taught that by learning to control my thoughts and to
keep my mind in sync with the Universal Laws, I can easily
tap into the Universe for anything I wanted.
Advances in Quantum Physics
Quantum Physics has recently revealed what we in the human
potential field have known all along: that our mind is the
cause of all that happens in our lives, whether it is good,
bad, or indifferent. It is not "God's will"', and we are
not victims of circumstance. The scientists have proven
that when we use our mind in the right way, we tap into the
hidden powers and forces that have been dormant. These
powers allow us to achieve anything we want in life, as
long as we operate within the Law.
When you change your thinking, you will change your life.
It's that simple. You will stop limiting your abilities,
you will learn new beliefs that serve you, and you will
achieve successes that you never thought possible. You will
find your life purpose, you will learn why you have been
getting the results you've gotten, and you will learn to
use visualization and meditation in a way that creates
calm, peace, and clarity. You will begin to live your life
the way God and you intended. You can even become a
multi-millionaire if you want to.
Make time to read and learn about the Laws of the Universe.
One of the Laws says "like attracts like."' Once you make
the decision to learn about the Laws, people and
opportunities will appear that will help deepen your
understanding and inspire you to continue the journey.
The process has already begun. It is no accident that you
are reading this message. The Universe works in exact
precision. My writing this article and getting it into your
hands at the exact time your mind is open to receive it is
no coincidence. It is further example of how the Law works.
Once you align your mind with these Laws, you can change
your life at depth. Your mind does create your reality. You
can choose to ignore it and continue to be a victim of
circumstance, or you can accept it and allow it to work for
you, your family, and your business. It's your choice.
Aim High!
About the Author:
LaVera Gaston is a Success Coach and Law of Attraction
expert providing coaching and training to entrepreneurs,
professionals, and small business owners. She is a former
senior executive and helps her clients develop the right
mindset, goals, and strategies to grow their businesses.
She is founder of MindSync Solutions and can be reached at
916-419-3998. You can visit her website at
http://www.laveragaston.com
Click here to learn more about The Science of Getting Rich
Friday, June 1, 2007
What Kind Of Difference Are You Making?
Do you wake up every morning and say "I'm going to change the
world today!"? Most of us would feel a bit grandiose saying
that, yet many of us really DO want to change the world, we DO
want to make a difference. And we often feel discouraged and
disheartened at our inability to do that.
But the truth is you DO make a difference. The question is "What
kind of a difference do you make?"
Positive or Negative?
Every day you have many opportunities to make a difference.
When you're driving down the freeway and someone pulls in front
of you, do you yell and shake your fist? Or do you send them a
kind thought?
When someone in your family interrupts your work do you let them
know (silently or not so silently) that they're bothering you?
Or do you set aside what you're doing and listen attentively?
When you've waited in line a long time to order your morning
latte are you a tad crabby when it's finally your turn? Or do
you say something empathetic to the busy barista?
How you choose to respond to and interact with others will
determine whether the difference you are making is positive or
negative -- but you are making a difference.
Other people are affected by your thoughts, words, and actions.
You can be a shining beam of light that brightens someone's day
or a dark cloud adding more dreary negativity. Your smile, kind
word, or warm gesture could make all the difference to your
family, friends, coworkers, or even to a stranger.
You may be thinking that it's no big deal; smiling at someone or
saying something nice doesn't make much of a difference.
However, as Mother Teresa said, "It is not the magnitude of our
actions but the amount of love that is put into them that
matters." Over the years, I've heard many stories about a few
words or a simple act changing someone's life. We never know
what the magnitude of our impact on someone will be or how it
might ripple out into the world.
Playing With This
I've been playing with this idea lately. Asking myself "What
KIND of difference am I making here?" seems to give me the
awareness and space to more often choose to speak or act in a way
that's likely to make a positive difference. This question
provides a tiny nudge that leads me to smile, say something
pleasant, or do some small thing for someone.
It's not that I was rude in restaurants or yelling at my husband
or snarling at strangers before. Nor is it that I am now or ever
will be a candidate for sainthood. It's just that "What kind of
difference can I make here?" lightly encourages me to extend
myself a little more in order to make a positive difference in
someone's life. And I'm having fun with it!
Some "little" things I've done in the last few weeks include:
* Giving my waitress a true, shining, bright smile rather than a
polite one
* Holding back my words when I felt critical of my husband
* Listening to a friend grieving her divorce
* Visiting an elderly friend who enjoys company and loves to tell
stories
In each case my intention was to "make a positive difference
with ease and fun." Since we can never know for sure the impact
of our seemingly little actions, I use this intention as my
guide.
Only If It Lights You Up
Each of us DOES make a difference in the world every day. We can
choose to make a POSITIVE difference as many (or as few) times a
day as we like. It's up to you. Don't bludgeon yourself
thinking you have to make a positive difference with every person
every minute of every day. That's too much work!
When it's easy for you to do so, try choosing to make a positive
difference. No suffering, sacrifice, or martyrdom required here.
Think again of Mother Teresa: she did amazing work, made a huge
difference in many lives, and she loved what she was doing! You
will have more positive impact on others and feed yourself as
well, when you make a positive difference by doing what lights
you up (what energizes and enlivens you, what you love, what
you're passionate about). Make the difference you can make with
ease and joy!
(Note: if you have been giving, giving, giving and have nothing
left to give, please, please, please fill your own tank first!
Self-care needs to be your priority. When you are filled up, you
may be ready to revisit this idea.)
In Your Life
How can you make a positive difference in the world today? Here
are some suggestions.
* Set your intention to make a positive difference with ease and
fun. If "ease and fun" aren't qualities that speak to you,
choose other qualities that light you up.
* Play with saying or doing "little" things that could in some
way make a positive difference to someone. How do you feel when
you do this? What happens? How does it seem to affect the other
person?
Remember sometimes we can tell the effect, sometimes not.
Sometimes the effect is immediate, sometimes later. Sometimes
there is no effect. You can't control any of this. When your
intention is to make a positive difference and you take action in
support of that intention, allow yourself to feel the pleasure of
what you have done, no matter the results.
* At the end of the day reflect on what you have done to make a
positive difference. No matter how large or small it may seem,
give yourself credit for what you have done. If you focus on what
you have done and how good that feels, you'll build energy to
continue making a positive difference.
Each of us truly can make a positive difference every day and who
knows how that could ripple out to change the world.
----------------------------------------------------------
Bonnie McFarland works with women at midlife who are restless,
stuck, or dissatisfied and wondering what to do with the rest
of their lives. Her e-book, "What Lights You Up? Your Guide
to Pleasure, Passion, and Purpose in Life," as well as
"Light Matters," her ezine with tips and tools for
getting more of what you truly want, are both
available free. go to http://www.labellavia.com
world today!"? Most of us would feel a bit grandiose saying
that, yet many of us really DO want to change the world, we DO
want to make a difference. And we often feel discouraged and
disheartened at our inability to do that.
But the truth is you DO make a difference. The question is "What
kind of a difference do you make?"
Positive or Negative?
Every day you have many opportunities to make a difference.
When you're driving down the freeway and someone pulls in front
of you, do you yell and shake your fist? Or do you send them a
kind thought?
When someone in your family interrupts your work do you let them
know (silently or not so silently) that they're bothering you?
Or do you set aside what you're doing and listen attentively?
When you've waited in line a long time to order your morning
latte are you a tad crabby when it's finally your turn? Or do
you say something empathetic to the busy barista?
How you choose to respond to and interact with others will
determine whether the difference you are making is positive or
negative -- but you are making a difference.
Other people are affected by your thoughts, words, and actions.
You can be a shining beam of light that brightens someone's day
or a dark cloud adding more dreary negativity. Your smile, kind
word, or warm gesture could make all the difference to your
family, friends, coworkers, or even to a stranger.
You may be thinking that it's no big deal; smiling at someone or
saying something nice doesn't make much of a difference.
However, as Mother Teresa said, "It is not the magnitude of our
actions but the amount of love that is put into them that
matters." Over the years, I've heard many stories about a few
words or a simple act changing someone's life. We never know
what the magnitude of our impact on someone will be or how it
might ripple out into the world.
Playing With This
I've been playing with this idea lately. Asking myself "What
KIND of difference am I making here?" seems to give me the
awareness and space to more often choose to speak or act in a way
that's likely to make a positive difference. This question
provides a tiny nudge that leads me to smile, say something
pleasant, or do some small thing for someone.
It's not that I was rude in restaurants or yelling at my husband
or snarling at strangers before. Nor is it that I am now or ever
will be a candidate for sainthood. It's just that "What kind of
difference can I make here?" lightly encourages me to extend
myself a little more in order to make a positive difference in
someone's life. And I'm having fun with it!
Some "little" things I've done in the last few weeks include:
* Giving my waitress a true, shining, bright smile rather than a
polite one
* Holding back my words when I felt critical of my husband
* Listening to a friend grieving her divorce
* Visiting an elderly friend who enjoys company and loves to tell
stories
In each case my intention was to "make a positive difference
with ease and fun." Since we can never know for sure the impact
of our seemingly little actions, I use this intention as my
guide.
Only If It Lights You Up
Each of us DOES make a difference in the world every day. We can
choose to make a POSITIVE difference as many (or as few) times a
day as we like. It's up to you. Don't bludgeon yourself
thinking you have to make a positive difference with every person
every minute of every day. That's too much work!
When it's easy for you to do so, try choosing to make a positive
difference. No suffering, sacrifice, or martyrdom required here.
Think again of Mother Teresa: she did amazing work, made a huge
difference in many lives, and she loved what she was doing! You
will have more positive impact on others and feed yourself as
well, when you make a positive difference by doing what lights
you up (what energizes and enlivens you, what you love, what
you're passionate about). Make the difference you can make with
ease and joy!
(Note: if you have been giving, giving, giving and have nothing
left to give, please, please, please fill your own tank first!
Self-care needs to be your priority. When you are filled up, you
may be ready to revisit this idea.)
In Your Life
How can you make a positive difference in the world today? Here
are some suggestions.
* Set your intention to make a positive difference with ease and
fun. If "ease and fun" aren't qualities that speak to you,
choose other qualities that light you up.
* Play with saying or doing "little" things that could in some
way make a positive difference to someone. How do you feel when
you do this? What happens? How does it seem to affect the other
person?
Remember sometimes we can tell the effect, sometimes not.
Sometimes the effect is immediate, sometimes later. Sometimes
there is no effect. You can't control any of this. When your
intention is to make a positive difference and you take action in
support of that intention, allow yourself to feel the pleasure of
what you have done, no matter the results.
* At the end of the day reflect on what you have done to make a
positive difference. No matter how large or small it may seem,
give yourself credit for what you have done. If you focus on what
you have done and how good that feels, you'll build energy to
continue making a positive difference.
Each of us truly can make a positive difference every day and who
knows how that could ripple out to change the world.
----------------------------------------------------------
Bonnie McFarland works with women at midlife who are restless,
stuck, or dissatisfied and wondering what to do with the rest
of their lives. Her e-book, "What Lights You Up? Your Guide
to Pleasure, Passion, and Purpose in Life," as well as
"Light Matters," her ezine with tips and tools for
getting more of what you truly want, are both
available free. go to http://www.labellavia.com
Saturday, April 28, 2007
Take Action on Your Attraction
Many people are of the mistaken belief that once they hear of the law of attraction and make and repeat a few affirmations, that their desires will come knocking at their door. Well, it's not quite that simple.
The ways of the universe aren't totally clear to us, but it will act in the most efficient way possible to grant your wishes. In most cases, circumstances will develop where you will meet a certain person, or be drawn to something new. This is the universe pulling you in a new direction. This new direction leads to your attracted goals.
You need to develop a sense of knowing when your subconscious mind is communicating with you. Most often you will get a sense in your stomach, like the one you get when you ride a roller coaster over the top of that first big drop! OK, it's not that extreme, but that's a common sensation that you are being drawn towards something.
You need to take action towards your goals. The universe will make things possible for you, but you will have to take some positive action steps when the opportunity is presented to you.
Think big, stay positive and follow your instinct. These actions will lead to your success!
The ways of the universe aren't totally clear to us, but it will act in the most efficient way possible to grant your wishes. In most cases, circumstances will develop where you will meet a certain person, or be drawn to something new. This is the universe pulling you in a new direction. This new direction leads to your attracted goals.
You need to develop a sense of knowing when your subconscious mind is communicating with you. Most often you will get a sense in your stomach, like the one you get when you ride a roller coaster over the top of that first big drop! OK, it's not that extreme, but that's a common sensation that you are being drawn towards something.
You need to take action towards your goals. The universe will make things possible for you, but you will have to take some positive action steps when the opportunity is presented to you.
Think big, stay positive and follow your instinct. These actions will lead to your success!
Saturday, April 14, 2007
Put Attraction into Action
To put attraction into action in your life, there are many ways to start the ball rolling. As we have all heard, the Law of Attraction is a great tool to help us enjoy a more desirable lifestyle.
A great start is to develop a few affirmations of how you would like your life to be. An affirmation is a short statement such as: "Money flows to me easily and frequently."
Repeat these statements as often as you can, within your head. The purpose is to help re-train your conscious mind to believing this new concept.
Next, visualize yourself already having the objects of your affirmations. Close your eyes and imagine yourself looking at your bank statement, admiring the vast amount of the balance in your account.
As you visualize this, feel gratitude for the money and also the sense of relief you have from knowing you no longer have money problems.
The law of attraction is always working, whether you like it or not. Keep a positive mental attitude and you will attract more of the positive things into your life. When you find yourself thinking low energy thoughts such as anger or hate, change your thoughts to those of happiness and love to attract more of the same into your life.
A great start is to develop a few affirmations of how you would like your life to be. An affirmation is a short statement such as: "Money flows to me easily and frequently."
Repeat these statements as often as you can, within your head. The purpose is to help re-train your conscious mind to believing this new concept.
Next, visualize yourself already having the objects of your affirmations. Close your eyes and imagine yourself looking at your bank statement, admiring the vast amount of the balance in your account.
As you visualize this, feel gratitude for the money and also the sense of relief you have from knowing you no longer have money problems.
The law of attraction is always working, whether you like it or not. Keep a positive mental attitude and you will attract more of the positive things into your life. When you find yourself thinking low energy thoughts such as anger or hate, change your thoughts to those of happiness and love to attract more of the same into your life.
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